
WOMEN VETERANS HISTORICAL COLLECTION
ORAL HISTORY PROJECT
INTERVIEWEE: VERONICA D. EUSTICE
INTERVIEWER: HERMANN J. TROJANOWSKI
DATE: February 8, 2003
HT: Today is Saturday, February 8th, 2003. My name
is Hermann Trojanowski, and I'm at the home of Mrs. Veronica Eustice in
Hillsborough, North Carolina. We're here to do an interview with Mrs. Eustice
for the Women Veterans Historical Project at University of North Carolina at
Greensboro.
Mrs. Eustice, if you would give me your full name, we'll use this to test for
your and my voice.
VE: Okay. My name is Veronica Eustice.
HT: Mrs. Eustice, thank you so much for sitting down and talking to me this
afternoon. Could you tell me your maiden name, please?
VE: My maiden name was [spells] Dabrowski.
HT: Where were you born?
VE: I was born in Brooklyn, New York.
HT: And when?
VE: May 7th, 1923.
HT: Where did you live before you enlisted in the service?
VE: I lived in Brooklyn, in that same area.
HT: Can you tell me a little bit about your family, about your parents and your
siblings?
VE: My father was Polish, born in Poland, emmigrated to this country when he was
a young boy. My mother was German. Well, my mother's mother was German. Her
father was Polish. I had four sisters. Did you want to know what happened to
them?
HT: Yes, that would be fine.
VE: Well, my oldest sister had rheumatic fever as a child; died at the age of
forty-something, of heart surgery. My next sister became a nurse, and she's
really the reason why I went to nursing school. In those days, there weren't
many things for women to do, and I just didn't know what I'd do after high
school. But she was a favorite sister, so I decided to go into nursing. A third
sister is the only one left alive now. She married early. She was a housewife
all her life. And then I had a youngest sister, who died of cancer.
HT: And what about your parents? You said your father was from Poland and your
mother's family was also from Poland. What part of Europe, do you recall?
VE: My father was born in a place called [spells] Morusy, and I'm not sure; I
think it's somewhere around Krakow. But I'm not sure.
HT: And on your mother's side?
VE: My mother's side, they were born in-well, I guess her father and mother came
from about the same place in Poland. I think it was around Ponza, and that was
one of those areas that was German and Polish.
HT: Did you attend high school in Brooklyn?
VE: Yes.
HT: Do you recall what the name of-
VE: Oh, yes. I went to Girls High School, and at that time it was a very fine
school. Had to be tested to get in. I don't know if you've ever heard of the
Delaney sisters.
HT: Yes.
VE: Okay. Mrs. Delaney taught me home economics at Girls High School. One thing
I remember about her is she always said, "Never repeat a flavor." For
all my life, I've remembered that, and if I have tomatoes in the salad, I don't
dare have tomatoes in anything else. I can still hear Mrs. Delaney telling me,
"Never repeat a flavor."
And then I went to nursing school in Brooklyn. It was a hospital school, St.
Catherine's Hospital Nursing School.
HT: Is that spelled with a "k" or a "c"?
VE: "C." And that, like everything else, is gone now; has been for a
number of years.
HT: That was St. Catherine's Hospital?
VE: Yes.
HT: Did you attend college?
VE: Not until, oh, years and years later. I went to college in Maine, just for
two years. I think it was the kind of deal where they gave you credit for life
experiences.
HT: Right. So after high school, after you graduated from high school, you came
to St. Catherine's Hospital and entered nursing school there.
VE: They had a nursing school.
HT: When was that, do you recall?
VE: Well, I got out in 1944, so it was '41 to '44. I spent the war years there.
HT: Okay. What made you decide to go to St. Catherine's?
VE: That's where my sister had gone, and it was close to home. That's really it;
because it was close to home.
HT: Did you stay on campus, or did you-
VE: No, I stayed on campus. In those days, we were the staff for the hospital,
so we really, you know, we had supervisors, but the nursing students were the
nursing staff for the hospital. So we went to school for three years, and that
was with maybe two weeks vacation. It was like a job. It wasn't like a normal
college, where you got the summer off. So we had three full years of study.
HT: What was your specialty?
VE: We didn't have specialties in those days.
HT: General nursing?
VE: General nursing.
HT: What was a typical day like?
VE: Well, we worked what we called split shifts, so we might work-if we were
lucky, we worked from seven in the morning till three. But usually we went to
work at seven o'clock and then would be off, either from ten till two or eleven
till three, and then go back to work and work till seven. Or we would work
evening shifts, which was three to eleven, or nights. As I say, we did the work
on the units, with senior nurses supervising us, and supervisors.
But we learned by doing, although in those days, you know, there wasn't that
much going on in nursing or in medicine, so we didn't do any of the things that
nurses do these days. The doctors even took blood pressures, because we had
interns and there was none of the high tech.
[Interruption]
VE: So I can remember during my last year, we had a big, big deal when some-and
I can't remember the doctor's name-came in to give the first dose of penicillin
to somebody in the hospital. That was the beginning.
HT: That's quite unusual.
VE: That was [unclear] is when it started.
HT: Now, who were your instructors in nursing? Were they doctors and nurses?
VE: Both. Doctors and nurses. Doctors would teach. We had one of the professors
from-I can't remember the medical school-who taught us anatomy and physiology,
and then someone from the school taught us Materia Medica, which is
pharmacology. Then the doctors would teach OB/GYN surgery and that sort of
thing, and then somebody from the college taught us nutrition. So we had people,
and I couldn't tell you the name of the school, but we had college professors
teaching us some things, and then the doctors would do things.
HT: So, it was a course of clinical as well as book learning.
VE: Yes. Oh, yes. Oh, sure. We learned anatomy and physiology. Nursing
techniques, of course, were taught by the nurses in the hospital, the nursing
staff, the teaching staff of the hospital. We learned how to make beds, that
sort of thing. But it was right there, going to classes every day, including
Saturdays. If you worked seven to three and you had class from-you might have
two hours of class in that time.
HT: When you graduated, did you have to take some sort of exam?
VE: Oh, yes, we took boards, state boards.
HT: What did you think of the caliber of the instructors, the nursing and the
doctors?
VE: I thought they were good. I mean, I had nothing to compare. But thinking
back now, I think they were good. They were well-qualified instructors. But as I
say, they taught us anatomy and physiology, and then that was a grind. And they
really taught us. We weren't like doctors; we didn't get bodies to handle, but
we did learn.
HT: Was it a Catholic hospital?
VE: This was a Catholic hospital. We had nuns.
HT: Nuns-which order, do you recall?
VE: Dominicans.
HT: And they ran the hospital, I assume.
VE: They ran it.
HT: They were the administrators, I assume.
VE: Yes. They ran it, is more like it. [Trojanowski laughs.] They really did.
HT: Was it a large hospital?
VE: Well, as hospitals go, as they went in those days, it was-I would say maybe
it was a 300-bed hospital, with a separate maternity hospital. Of course, in
those days, maternity was a big thing. You know, war years; we were having
babies all over the place. But that was a special hospital, and we would have
our-I don't know; I think a three-month rotation. And that was busy, busy, busy.
It was nothing to deliver three or four babies in an eight-hour shift.
HT: So, did you help with maternity as well?
VE: Yes.
HT: So you rotated through the wards.
VE: We rotated through all the services. We went to O.R., surgical nursing,
medical nursing, pediatrics, central supply. In those days, you know, we
prepared all the solutions and instruments, and the equipment, so we worked in
everything; dietary, every place.
HT: I'm assuming your parents approved of you going to nursing school, since
they already had a daughter who had done that.
VE: My mother did; my father didn't.
HT: Oh, really?
VE: No. My father didn't want-my father thought that his girls should put
themselves through college, write poetry and books, and study on the side. No,
he didn't-my father died when I was high school, but I think almost the last
thing he ever said to me was, "I understand you want to be a nurse. I don't
think you should do that." He wanted me to do something. You know, he
wanted me to be a writer.
HT: What line of work was your dad in?
VE: He was an intellectual. He worked for a newspaper, and it was the Times, but
the Polish Times, in Brooklyn, in that part of Brooklyn, and he wrote for them.
HT: And your mother?
VE: My mother was a housewife. But my father was-he was a patriot. He was buried
with a little vial of Polish soil. He was very interested in learning. He set up
libraries in the churches, and he developed a dramatic society for our church.
He was a very busy man.
HT: After you graduated from nursing school, what did you do next?
VE: I did private duty for a while, and here again, I don't remember dates too
well, or how long. But not too long, because I don't remember more than two or
three patients. But it was mainly while I was waiting to hear about my state
boards. You know, you took state boards and then you had to wait several months
before you got results. Then I joined the army.
HT: Did you enjoy private-duty nursing? Was that enjoyable?
VE: Not really.
HT: I'm not real familiar with private-duty nursing. Is that where you go to
someone's house and-
VE: No, no. It was in-hospital. In those days, you know, people had private-duty
nurses, and you were that patient's nurse. It didn't mean that patient was so
much sicker than anyone else. He was just somebody who could afford private
duty.
HT: So they paid you.
VE: They paid, through the hospital.
HT: Okay. To sort of-
VE: To be there with a nurse. No, I really, I didn't enjoy that too much.
HT: You mentioned a few minutes ago about doing private-duty nursing before you
joined the military. What made you decide to join the military?
VE: Well, partly because the pay was so good. My mind thought of something like
$300 a month, but my husband tells me that was way too high. It was never that
much. But the pay was good, and, you know, it was the idea of going places and
seeing things; not only the pay but they took care of your meals and housing.
HT: How did your family feel about you joining?
VE: Well, my mother-the war was still going on, and she was afraid I'd be
killed, so she-but she never tried to stop me. She just took whatever her
children, just lived with whatever her children decided to do.
HT: Now, you were over twenty-one when you joined. Correct?
VE: Yes.
HT: So your mother did not have to sign.
VE: No, no.
HT: What did your friends and your siblings think about you joining up?
VE: Well, my sister had joined the Army Air Force, the one who was a nurse, yes.
So, you know, it was-and I guess, you know, I don't know how many siblings you
have, but in my family there was always one who meant a little bit more, and
this one was somebody who-she and I were very close. I guess that had something
to do with it, but it was the idea that there was a lot more going on than there
was in the hospital. I don't know. I guess I just never thought of trying to
find a job in another hospital or anything like that. I probably could have very
easily, because the nurses were all going off to war.
HT: Do you recall when this was, when you joined?
VE: It was '44, late '44, because I got out of the nursing school on D-Day. June
6th.
HT: You graduated June 6th.
VE: June 6th of '44.
HT: Of course, I forget D-Day wasn't in the news, as it would be today, instant
news and that kind of stuff. So, you learned about it-
VE: Well, we learned about it later. Yes. And in those days, I knew there was a
war going on, but I didn't read the papers the way I do now. I was young. I was
not interested.
HT: What made you decide to join? I think you said that you joined the Army
Nurse Corps, as opposed to-
VE: Yes.
HT: What made you-because your sister joined?
VE: Yes, partly it was, and because I wanted to do more than just work in
private duty in this little hospital. It was like home-hospital, and it still
had nuns running it. I don't know if you've ever had any experience with nuns,
but they're always supervising you. You know, even when you're a big grown-up
woman making your own way, they're still going to tell you what to do. So that
was part of it.
HT: Do you recall the process that you had to go through in order to join the
Army Nurse Corps?
VE: Not a lot of it. I remember going down to somewhere in Brooklyn to join, and
I had an interview with somebody. And then, the thing I do remember is that I
was told to go next door and join the Red Cross, and it cost a quarter. Had to
pay a quarter to join the Red Cross, and I got a Red Cross nursing pin, although
we were not part of the Red Cross, but you had to join the Red Cross.
I don't remember the details about getting on the train and going anyplace, but
I went to Fort Dix in New Jersey for my basic training. I remember part of that.
I remember the barracks. I remember how we used to buy toothbrushes to scrub the
floors before the inspection, and that sort of thing. Our barracks never got to
win inspection, so I think they gave us a booby prize. We won the drill at
graduation day.
HT: Do you recall how long basic training was?
VE: I think it was three months.
HT: Oh, really.
VE: At least three months. Yes, I think it was three months. We were among the
last classes in.
HT: Right. Did you have to go through calisthenics and parades and all that?
VE: Oh, yes, and bivouacs and marches. Sure, marches with full field packs, all
those things. I don't think we did any nursing at that time. It was mostly, it
was calisthenics and drill and classroom stuff.
HT: Learning to be an army person.
VE: That's right. Learning how to salute.
HT: Do you recall what the typical day was like during basic training?
VE: I've forgotten, really, the typical day. I can remember, you know, there's
things that I remember more. I remember overnights and bivouacs and sleeping in
tents and eating C-rations or whatever they were, and having a great old time,
you know, because it was like going to camp, even though we did do marches and
stuff. But we were young.
HT: And these were all nurses.
VE: These were all nurses, all women. There were no male nurses in those days.
HT: Did they give you training for overseas duty? As I've talked to other
nurses, I think they had to climb these ropes on sides of ships and this sort of
thing, with full packs.
VE: No. When I decided to go overseas, I went to Columbus, South Carolina, I
think. I've traveled around the country a lot since then, so I get these things
mixed up. I know it was-when I decided to go overseas, it was South Carolina. I
was there for maybe six weeks. I'm not sure of the time, but I don't remember
that very much. I don't remember the training.
HT: Now, when you went into the Army Nurse Corps, were you automatically an
officer?
VE: Oh, yes.
HT: Even during basic training you were an officer.
VE: Oh, yes. They explained that to us. They said because we had something to
offer the army, we were-and I've explained that to my husband many, many times.
He went in as an enlisted man. I said, we were told that we had something to
offer the army, and I guess it just made sense to make officers out of us.
HT: Sure. Now, who were your instructors in basic training?
VE: Major somebody, and Major somebody else.
HT: They were officers.
VE: Oh, they were officers, yes.
HT: Women officers.
VE: Women and men. Sure, that was good duty for some of those second
lieutenants. They got to do calisthenics with the nurses.
HT: Do you recall any interesting incidents that happened during basic that
stand out in your mind, something unusual?
VE: Nothing. As I say, you know, I remember bivouacs and I remember getting
tapped as the cabins-we were in Cabin Four. I remember getting it ready for
inspections, and all this crazy stuff we used to do about scrubbing floors and
[unclear]. But I don't remember much else about it.
HT: How many women were in each cabin? Because I was in a barracks when I was in
basic training with about fifty guys.
VE: No. I would say ten, maybe, ten, twelve. I don't know how many barracks. We
were Barracks Four, and I don't remember how many barracks there were. I
remember the sanitary facilities were something I wasn't used to, you know, just
a big room with no doors.
HT: How did you feel about the lack of privacy?
VE: In those days it didn't bother me. I mean, I was young.
HT: And plus you'd been through three years of nursing school, where you
probably lost a lot of your privacy as well.
VE: Well, no, we had private rooms there. Sure. We didn't have our own
bathrooms, but we had privacy. We had nuns, you know. Nuns wouldn't let little
girls run around. No, but that didn't bother me. As I say, I was young and it
was an adventure. And the war was winding down, and I wasn't blasé about the
war and all that, but this was fun in a lot of ways.
HT: After graduating from basic training at Fort Dix, where was your next duty?
VE: I stayed at Fort Dix, and it was in an orthopedic unit. We had a lot of men
who had been shot up, and they were doing a lot of bone grafts, and that's what
I remember the most. That was the work. The one thing I do remember is the
contrast. You know, we did all of the work and we learned a lot in nursing
schools, but we were still pretty well supervised.
Now I was a big second lieutenant and I had three wards under me. I was the
nurse. The supervising nurse was the head nurse of these three wards, had no
idea about leading or supervising. Fortunately, we had WACs who did a lot of the
work, so they were giving injections that I had never been taught to do, and I
had to learn that.
HT: So, did you have medics working with you as well, or just WACs?
VE: Oh, medics, too. No, but men, too, but-I don't know what they called them.
They weren't called medics. I don't remember.
HT: Do you recall about how many people you had to supervise?
VE: If you had three wards-no, I don't.
HT: But I would imagine quite a few. Were you responsible for the wards
twenty-four hour a day?
VE: No, no. I'm thinking of one of those jobs where I was either the night nurse
or the evening nurse. Of course, during the day there were a lot more people
around.
HT: That's quite a bit of responsibility when you're on first.
VE: Yes, for somebody who's never been taught to have-or, if I had had
responsibility, I didn't know it. It wasn't quite so apparent. You know, there
was always somebody to call when we were in school, even though when we got to
be senior nurses we did have a lot of experience and a lot of responsibility,
but always, there's always somebody to call if we needed help.
HT: You say this was orthopedic unit. And that's all?
VE: It was all orthopedics, yes. It was mainly people who were having bone
grafts.
HT: From injuries they had sustained over in Europe, I guess.
VE: Yes, yes. So, there was a lot-it was just typical men with a lot of dressing
changes, men who needed-mainly. That's the one thing I remember is this being,
having to be so careful with the technique with these bone injuries, because of
infection. So that sticks out. And then, of course, I remember show people
coming, having shows.
HT: Who were some of the-
VE: Who, who? I don't remember.
HT: But people like perhaps Bob Hope-
VE: Yes. Not Bob Hope. It would be somebody like Dick Haynes. I remember being
outside and hearing him sing. Bob Hope went overseas. He didn't waste his time
at Fort Dix.
HT: But you were fairly close to New York City.
VE: Yes, I was, so I could go home often.
HT: You could go home whenever you wanted to.
VE: Sure. Of course, I worked the regular week schedule, so I didn't always-I
often worked weekends. But I could, sure. It was just a train; take and train
and go home. In those days, trains and subways took you anyplace you wanted to
go.
HT: What did you do during your off-duty hours?
VE: Well, we'd go to the officers club, and just a lot of group stuff. Had
dates. I don't remember anybody special, but, you know, just really sit around
and talk.
HT: What was a typical day? How many hours a day did you-
VE: We worked eight hours a day, eight hours straight, on different shifts. I
remember working nights and having to do private duty for somebody. I don't
remember now who he was or why, but he looked like a death camp survivor, you
know, someone who was almost a skeleton. And I can remember sitting with that
man, doing private duty with him.
HT: [Unclear] Was that to earn extra money?
VE: No, no. It was because he needed that kind of care.
HT: Oh, I see. Okay.
VE: No, no. It was the army giving him that kind of care.
HT: You had orders to do that sort of thing.
VE: Yes.
HT: What type of uniforms did you wear?
VE: We had brown and white seersucker dresses. You don't remember Diane von
Furstenberg? Her dresses that she, you know, they're sort of pullover things,
but brown and white striped seersucker, and seersucker caps. We wore caps in
those days. I can remember getting all my-that's one thing I remember, getting
all those uniforms, you know, the issues, and then having an Eisenhower jacket
made. That was a big deal.
HT: I'm assuming you had a full complement-did you have white uniforms as well?
VE: No, no, no. This was the uniform during war, and it was khaki. You know,
nurses wore blue and red before that, but now we wore ODs and we were issued an
OD green coat, and the Class A uniform, which was a skirt, one color, and then
we were issued two dresses. One was a kind of a dark khaki, and the other one
was the pink, which is that kind of gray-pinky looking thing, and the coat and
the overseas cap, and the regular hat.
HT: The hobby hat?
VE: Yes. And shoes and hose.
HT: Did you have to have them tailored to make them fit, or were they a pretty
good fit?
VE: A pretty good fit, yes. Kind of small in those days.
HT: If I can just back up for a second, when you enlisted, did you have to take
a test of some sort, or a physical, do you recall?
VE: I had to take a physical, but I don't remember it at all. I remember my
physical coming home after the army, you know, when I was discharged, but I
don't remember them. But I'm sure we did; I just don't remember. I remember the
quarter for the Red Cross.
HT: Do you recall what people in general thought about women joining the
military during those days?
VE: Oh, I think it was considered a good thing. I think a lot of the women in my
class joined, either the army or the navy. Of course, I was nearsighted, and the
navy didn't-you know, I didn't even consider the navy, because you had to test
20-20 vision.
HT: The army didn't have that requirement?
VE: No, no. I don't know why. I guess serving on a ship-I don't know. But I
didn't even try to join the navy. It was the army.
HT: During your time in basic training, did you ever have duty on KP?
VE: No.
HT: Because I did when I was air force.
VE: No.
HT: What about the other women that you met? Have you kept in touch with any of
them since then?
VE: Not in basic training. Now, I did for a while keep track, because, you know,
when I went overseas I had two friends who were my bridesmaids, one for the
German wedding and one for the American. I kept in touch with one over the
years, but she's gone now. But most of them, no, I didn't keep in touch with
very many of them. I remember some of them from basic training, but I still have
a little tiny jar of powder, sachet powder that one of my friends gave me as a
Christmas present. I've kept it all these years; don't know why.
HT: After you graduated from basic training, was it up to you, or were you given
orders to join the orthopedic unit?
VE: No, we were assigned. We were assigned.
HT: You were assigned. You had no choice.
VE: I don't think I had any choice. I might have, but, no. I was a little
Catholic girl. I didn't ask for things like-but that was fine with me. I mean, I
liked being that close to home.
HT: Do you recall what the hospital was on base where you were? Did it have a
specific name or unit?
VE: No. It was probably-well, I don't remember. It was a general hospital. It
was a huge hospital, a general hospital, but I don't remember.
HT: So, the hospital, there were the orthopedic units and other units as well
inside this big huge hospital?
VE: Oh, yes. Yes.
HT: It sounds like you enjoyed your work.
VE: Oh, yes. Well, I enjoyed everything in those days. You know, I was young.
Life was fun. I didn't have a lot of worries. And I did. I can't remember too
many of the people, but we had fun after work and we had fun working, because we
were working with young men who had been shot up, but they were alive and
getting better.
HT: And that was probably very rewarding.
VE: Sure. And, you know, they were just fun to be with. They were not like kids,
but you know, we were young people helping each other. Not helping each other;
we were doing the helping. But we were young people, and the average G.I. is a
pleasant person.
HT: Did you receive any additional training once you got to orthopedic ward, or
unit?
VE: No, just orientation, because it was, basically, general nursing.
HT: And how long did you serve with this unit?
VE: I don't remember, but one day I saw a notice on a bulletin board asking if
people wanted to go overseas, and if they did they were to sign up. So I signed.
HT: What made you decide to do that?
VE: I just thought it would be a good thing. And I thought, I've never been
anyplace. It would be a good thing to do. I remember visiting a friend; went to
dinner with a friend and her husband, and told them that I had signed up. And
they were almost like being shocked. "Don't you realize you could get
killed out there?" Of course, at that age you're invulnerable, and the war
was just about over.
HT: Right. [Unclear] for overseas training. Is that correct?
VE: Yes.
HT: Did you go to Columbia, South Carolina?
VE: Columbia, South Carolina.
HT: Which is the capital.
VE: Yes.
HT: Was this Fort Jackson, by any chance? Because that's where [unclear].
VE: I think so. Yes, I think so. And there again, I don't remember much about
it. I remember silly things like being someplace with a friend and being told
that Southern ladies drink in their homes, so you can't go to bar in this town.
And, of course, drinking was no big deal, except that you could go to the
officers club and have a drink, and that, to me, was a big deal.
HT: Was this your first time out of the New York area?
VE: Yes.
HT: And first time going south. What did you think of South Carolina?
VE: I just have a vision of darkness. You know, I don't guess we stayed too
long. I don't remember too much about it except sort of a dull-looking town.
HT: And then from Columbia, South Carolina, where did you go next?
VE: I went to Fort Kilmer to be processed to be sent overseas.
HT: Where is Fort Kilmer?
VE: Fort Kilmer's in New Jersey. I can't tell you exactly where, but it's in New
Jersey, and it was an embarkation and a disembarkation point. Then I don't
remember much about it, except that I went overseas on the George Washington.
HT: The USS George Washington?
VE: USS George Washington. That's the one Harry Truman took overseas when he
went to World War I.
HT: This was a troop ship?
VE: That was a big troop ship.
HT: More a converted ocean liner?
VE: No, I don't think so. No. No, it wasn't, because I guess, I don't know. I
guess they had put those in dry-dock after Harry was through with it. I don't
remember much about it except that I'm sure we slept in the hold, went down
somewhere in hammocks, and it wasn't very pleasant.
HT: Do you recall how long the voyage lasted?
VE: I want to say ten days, but I'm not sure.
HT: I've talked to other women who went overseas and talked about zigzag. Did
you do that sort of thing, where the ship had zigzagged to avoid German
submarines?
VE: No, because the war was over.
HT: Oh, the war was over by this time.
VE: The war was over by then, and I was going over for occupation.
HT: Oh, I see. Do you recall when you went over, by any chance?
VE: Sure. In January of '46.
HT: So you were at home, or back in the States, rather, during VE- and VJ-Day.
VE: Yes.
HT: Do you recall where you were each time?
VE: I remember VJ-Day, and it seems to me I'd just finished basic training on VJ-Day.
I just don't remember VE-Day. I don't remember when that was.
HT: May 8th, '45, and VJ was August 14th, '45.
VE: Yes, I remember August.
HT: So, this was the middle of the winter of '46 that you went over, so it must
have been rather uncomfortable and cold.
VE: It was cold.
HT: The ship was probably rocking.
VE: Yes, although it didn't bother me. I remember, just remember, you know,
sitting around during the day. We didn't have jobs of any kind. We were just
going overseas. And a lot of people. You know, I enjoyed it.
HT: Who else was aboard the ship other than nurses?
VE: Men. [Laughter] Men. There were men, soldiers.
HT: So they were going over for the occupation as well.
VE: They were going over, yes.
HT: And were there many women aboard, many nurses?
VE: Yes, but I don't know how many. I remember getting my orders, and I was
going to Kassel in Germany. I don't remember where I was when I got orders. I
don't know if I got them after getting off the ship. We all went to Camp Lucky
Strike in Le Havre.
HT: Why did they call it Camp Lucky Strike?
VE: They named them all after-there was Camp Chesterfield, Lucky Strike.
HT: After cigarettes?
VE: Yes. Oh, in those days, you know, you were issued cigarettes. Sure.
HT: You said, you've landed in Le Havre.
VE: Yes.
HT: Do you recall how long you stayed there?
VE: I don't remember how long, and I think I took a train to Kassel. But I don't
remember much about getting there, except that we lived-we went to Kassel. We
lived in bombed-out apartment buildings, so, you know, there would be part of
the building would be gone. The hospital there, it was the 115th General
Hospital, and it had been General von Rundstedt's headquarters, so it was kind
of a very modern-looking place.
HT: So the American army took over a German hospital.
VE: Yes.
HT: Did you have any contact with the civilian population?
VE: Only as they worked in the hospital, most of them as maids and cooks and
things like that, because Germans wanted to work. That's how they ate.
HT: And where in Germany is Kassel?
VE: Frankfurt's the biggest town near, and at that time it had been hit by
everybody and it was almost 85 percent destroyed, so there were shells of
buildings. And someplace, and I don't remember where, there was a picture of the
town, of how it looked before it had been hit. And then when we went back to
Kassel years later, someplace there was a picture of what it looked like when we
were there. But the thing I remember is that there were no stores. There was no
place to buy anything. You went to the PX to do any shopping you wanted to do.
But basically it was going to work, you know, going to work and going to the
officers club.
HT: Any chance to go out in the countryside or do any sightseeing or vacation or
anything like that?
VE: Not then. Of course, you know, I can't remember the day of the week, but
when I got to Kassel there were five of us, and they had a cocktail party for
the five nurses. That's when I met my darling, at the cocktail party. So that
was the end of my army career. You know, we sat and talked and talked and
talked, and then went our way, merry way. He was on his way home. The way he
tells it, he went back to his-am I getting ahead of where you want to be?
HT: No, no. I just want to make sure that I had enough tape on here.
VE: But when he went back to his-he was in a unit that was sending him home. He
went back and talked about me, and somebody said, "Why don't you go get a
date?" So he sent a message with the person getting supplies at the supply
depot, saying he wanted a date with me, and that person sent it to our supply
person, to the dietitian, who sent it to the chief nurse, who sent it to my room
in my unit, my apartment, saying, "Lieutenant Eustice wants a date with
you."
And I said, "Who's Lieutenant Eustice?"
And somebody said, "Oh, you had a nice time. Why don't you go?"
So I did. It had to be later than January, because-much later than January,
because-
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HT: So you were married March-
VE: March 14th.
HT: So, you'd only known each other eighteen days from the time you first were
there.
VE: Yes, but not a full eighteen days.
HT: You must have gotten there in late-
VE: Got there in late February.
HT: February, as opposed to January. Now, once you were married, you had to get
out of the service.
VE: Yes. Well, but wait. You know, I had been raised Catholic and Russell was
Protestant, and so that was that, and there was that problem we had to deal
with. And then we had to get permission to be married; had to get permission
from the army, and then we had to get permission from the Germans, because to be
legally married in this country, you had to be legally married in the country in
which the marriage is performed.
He, being an adjutant, knew his way around, so he went to see all the people he
needed to, to get permission to marry us. It was always, first there was the
matter of the religious angle, and he had to see someone from the chaplaincy
service. The way he tells it, the chaplain he was talking to was a Methodist
minister, and he was going through all the files to see if he could get army
regulations that had to do with this, when a little WAC poked him and said,
"What's the matter, Lieutenant?" He told her his story about wanting
to marry me.
She said, "What's your name? What's her name?" Took the thing into the
Catholic chaplain and said, "Father, I need your signature." He signed
it and we got the permission, and then got back to our unit, when the Germans
refused to marry us. We had to post banns, they said.
And so there again, another little WAC called the German. He was the recorder of
deeds [unclear]. Called this man and said, "You marry those people when
they want and how they want." And he did.
Oh, and there were things like our friend was the mess officer and the motor
pool officer, so we needed a ring, and Bill talked to one of the sergeants and
said, "I need a ring."
And he said, "Lieutenant, I'll get it for you, but don't ask me how."
And he did. So they probably paid for my wedding ring with hams or something
like that. And he provided us with a wedding dinner, the best food I'd had in a
long time. It was a beautiful wedding, and we married in the officers club.
HT: And that would be an American service; no, the German service.
VE: The German service? Oh, that had to happen before the American service. We
went to this man's office, and here he was in a cutaway, and he had potted
plants all over the place, and, of course, he married us in German. And every
now and then he'd shake his hand, he'd put his hand out and we'd shake it and
say, "Thank you."
And somebody said, "No, that's just you're acknowledging that what he's
saying is true." So we were married. Years later we went back to Kassel and
asked if we could see the records. And boy, within three minutes, somebody
brought out the record of our marriage in a big book; date and time.
HT: Were you sorry that your family couldn't participate in the wedding?
VE: Partly, but mostly I was in love. [Trojanowski laughs.] I wanted to be
married to this man, and I really-if we had gone off in an afternoon and gone
off someplace together, it would have been-I was happy to have all the party and
everything, but I wanted to marry him. That was the important thing.
HT: So, once you were married, did you have to get out of the service right
away, or how did that work?
VE: He had to go home first, and then send orders for me. He had to send his
discharge orders for me to get orders to come home. In the meantime, I had a
trip to Berchtesgaden. You'll have to figure out how to spell that.
HT: Was that just a little side trip?
VE: I think it was like a three-day leave, something like that. I don't know why
they gave it to me. I certainly wouldn't have done that. I would have said,
"This nurse is on her way home. Let's not waste money." But they did,
and I was very-you know, it was a very nice trip. I remember being way, way up
in that eagle's nest and having dinner there.
HT: This was not a honeymoon.
VE: No, no. No, we had three days in Bad Wildungen a hotel that belonged-I don't
know, I think it was 1st Army Headquarters. I remember having dinner in this
huge, huge dining room, when somebody began to play the wedding march, and
someone came out with a cake. We both said, "Gee, there must be a bridal
couple someplace," when the cake came to us. And there again, if I
remember, you couldn't buy anything. We did buy a painting, but there was just
no stores, no place to go. You couldn't go off and have a cup of coffee or
anything like that. There just wasn't anything.
HT: So, where is Bad Wildungen? Where is that?
VE: I'd have to get the map. It's a spa town, you know. We've been back there,
too, and now it's a health center.
HT: So, how long were you in Germany after you got married?
VE: Got married in March, and I went home in May, late May.
HT: I assume you worked in the hospital there.
VE: Yes.
HT: What kind of nursing did you do there?
VE: It was a general hospital and we did general nursing. And then I don't
remember very well, but I remember we had one patient, a young man, and I don't
know if he had been shot up or-but a really, really sick kid. Most of them were
just in for-the thing I remember most is that one of the other nurses and I used
to gather up everybody's jewelry and clean it. You know, there wasn't that much
to do. It was very easy duty, soldiers mostly not even bedridden anymore.
HT: So they were not wounded. The war was over by then.
VE: No, the war was over and it was just a general hospital for American
soldiers.
HT: Was it for American civilians as well, I mean, dependents and that sort of
thing?
VE: Must have been.
HT: Of course, I'm sure at that time there weren't that many dependents over
there.
VE: No, there weren't. It was military, because there really weren't any
dependents. I can remember seeing-you'd see people going down the street with a
wheelbarrow with all their possessions in it. You know, there was nothing there.
We couldn't drink the water. We used to have halogen tablets that we'd put in
our canteens. And I remember the children. We'd get our candy rations, and the
children would be there asking for chocolat.
HT: And chewing gum, probably.
VE: Yes. And I remember being called to somebody's office one day because I
don't think I was ever late getting to duty, but I was just on time, and I would
be running down the street to go to the hospital. I remember somebody calling me
in and telling me that I should remember to salute when the colonel was coming
the other direction.
HT: Speaking of that, did you have a hard time adjusting to army life, saluting,
and the discipline and that sort of thing?
VE: I must have, because I remember being told at Fort Dix, being told by
somebody that I was to rise when a superior officer came into the room, and this
was a woman. I think I was a second lieutenant; she was first. And I remember
thinking, oh, for God's sake, because as students, in those days you always rose
when a doctor walked into the room, and usually the doctor would push you down.
But that's all I remember.
HT: Now, the three months that you were in Germany, I think you said you went to
Berchtesgaden and a couple of other places. Did you get a chance to meet any
German civilians or anything like that?
VE: Only the people who worked at the hospital. You know, that was the big deal.
You weren't supposed to fraternize. And there wasn't any place to go. I don't
know if it was just because our world was so narrow. We'd go to work and then
we'd spend the evenings at the officers club, because it was there, or in the
apartment. I was learning to play bridge. Wish I had stayed and learned. But
that's the sort of thing we did. But, no, there weren't any people. It's just,
we would-I remember that the Germans used to make donuts, and they were the same
kind of donuts my mother used to make, just fluffy, yeasty donuts, not these
round things, but they were-and hot with sugar on the outside. I can remember
having donuts and coffee with the Germans around, the little German girls.
HT: I think you described earlier the devastation to the city and that sort of
thing. How did that affect you and the other Americans, to see that devastation?
VE: Well, you know, it was something-I don't think, I can't say that it was
unexpected, but it was a shock at first. But then you got used to it. And every
now and then there would be a smell of just an unpleasant odor, but you got used
to these bombed-out buildings. I remember after I was married we had a little
German maid who took care of the apartment, and she came over one day and showed
me a picture of her child, you know, trying to communicate. I asked about her
husband. She said, "Russians." So he had been captured and he was
gone. But other than the people who worked for us, there wasn't any contact with
anybody else.
HT: Could you speak German at the time?
VE: No. You picked up a few words, but, you know, danke.
HT: Auf wiedersehen, that sort of thing. I can't remember if you told me the
name of the unit where you were stationed in Germany.
VE: It was the 115th General Hospital. We've been back and it's now some sort of
club. I remember going up to the German guard there and I said, "You know,
this used to be a hospital."
"It is not a hospital any longer," he said.
HT: It was a German hospital at one time, maybe.
VE: No, no. It was German headquarters for their general.
HT: Headquarters for their general. All right.
VE: And it was a modern building, modern-looking building, and very nice.
HT: So when you went back, what had they turned it into at that time?
VE: I'm trying to remember. It was not a hospital of any kind. It was a club of
some sort. And we went by the old officers club where we had been married, and
it was now a transportation building of some sort, kind of like union
headquarters. I remember we stopped some people going by and said, "You
know, we were married there." And they were completely unimpressed.
HT: During your, I think you said about fifteen months in the service, did you
ever encounter any kind of discrimination against yourself because you were a
woman?
VE: No, because I was there as a nurse. No. And then I would say we were treated
like second lieutenants. We were treated very well by the patients. But then,
you know, the average soldier in those days was respectful of women.
HT: But they were young.
VE: Yes, and young, and we were young, and so we were-
HT: What was the hardest thing you ever had to do, physically or emotionally,
while you were in the service?
VE: I guess taking care of those two patients. The one I remember, the one at
Dix who looked like a concentration camp victim, just being with him. I can
remember this bony, almost skull.
HT: Do you recall why he was in that shape?
VE: I don't remember. I don't remember. He may have been-
HT: Was he a POW at one time?
VE: He may have been. I don't remember. All I remember is him as a patient, you
know, and almost couldn't touch him, because he hurt so badly.
HT: He was an American.
VE: He was an American. And then I remember this other young man, and I'll bet
Russell knows more about this other patient at Kassel than I do. I don't
remember him very well.
HT: Did you take care of only American patients, or did you ever have any
contact with German POWs or any-
VE: No, no. Only Americans.
HT: Do you ever recall being afraid or in physical danger?
VE: No.
HT: Do you recall any embarrassing moments?
VE: I don't think so. Maybe I was a little embarrassed when I was told to
salute, but not really, you know. Of course, I'm looking at it now. I might have
been embarrassed then. But, no, I don't remember any embarrassing moments. I
remember going to dinners, and why-I know there was an air force unit there, and
I remember going to a party with fly-boys. I remember my sister's husband. They
were divorced later on, but I remember he called me from London. He wanted to
come to see me, and he said, "How do I get there?"
And I said, "Ask somebody." I didn't know.
He said, "I'll be flying." Well, you know, I couldn't help him. He
never did come. No, I don't remember any embarrassing-I remember spots. I
remember walking real fast or running to get to the hospital early in the
morning to get to work on time. In those days you could stay out till three
o'clock in the morning and get up at seven, ten of seven, and be at work at
seven, you know, and never mind it.
HT: What about humor? Do you recall anything hilarious or humorous?
VE: Not hilarious. I remember this one little soldier who was bedridden, but he
was always going to take me out and we were going to get in a car. We kidded
about that we were going to get in there and, "We'll blow a little smoke
around and get that cabaret atmosphere," he used to say. No, I remember
that the young men, the soldiers were fun. You know, they were no longer-they
were not, except for those two that I remember vividly, they were all on the
mend. And, you know, the average American has a good sense of humor. So it was a
good change from taking, you know, instead of taking care of cardiac patients or
old men and women who were dying of pneumonia and stuff like that, the way you
did in nursing school.
HT: Tell me about your social life in the various places where you were. Do you
recall any favorite songs, movies, dances?
VE: I was never good at jitterbugging; never could do that. Really, a pretty
ploddy dancer when I got around to it. The songs were, you know, the old songs.
Of course, you don't remember those. Vaughn Monroe used to sing "Let it
Snow." I remember we would get all-that was [unclear]. It was a good thing.
And I remember getting to Kassel. That first day I found a record and a record
player, the old Victrola kind of thing, and turned it on and it was somebody
singing "Going Home" from the-was it New World Symphony?
HT: I think you told me earlier that you graduated from nursing school on D-Day,
and you were right in basic training on VJ-Day.
VE: Yes, finished.
HT: Right. Do you recall anything about the dropping of the atomic bomb over
Japan?
VE: No. I don't remember that.
HT: Probably wasn't widely publicized.
VE: I just don't remember. You know, I remember it most, more, later on. I
remember it more as a young married woman, you know, when it started to be-it
was the should we have or shouldn't we have, that sort of thing. But no, at the
time, I don't remember that.
HT: I think you said that you came home in May of 1946, and did you come back by
ship?
VE: Yes. I remember that I was-you know, I was in love and just ready to go
home.
HT: Because your husband was already back in the states.
VE: Yes. I remember being there with another war bride, and it was a war bride
ship, as a matter of fact, with a lot of French war brides with their babies. We
were all told, the Americans were told that this ship-in essence what they told
us was now, "This is for them. You're here because you need a ride home,
but this is for them." I remember these French women, some of them holding
their babies over the side of the ship so they could piddle into the ocean.
HT: Oh my god.
VE: Yes. I can still see that.
HT: Sort of like Michael Jackson's holding his baby over the balcony.
VE: Yes. And you know, Chinese babies have their diapers cut out at the back.
HT: There were Chinese aboard?
VE: No, no, these were not Chinese, but I'm just comparing them with the Chinese
babies, who, the parents make it easy for the kids to squat, because they wear
diapers, but they have holes in them. But this other girl and I-I remember her
name was Cecilia, and she had married someone. He must have been Polish, because
she referred to him as Steve. His name was Steve. She and I both decided we'd
work on the ship, so we worked in the nursery. I don't remember much about the
work except that I would get up real early in the morning, go to work, have my
dinner at maybe five o'clock, and read some and go to bed, anxious to come home.
HT: Now, you were already discharged by this time, or were you-
VE: No, I was on my way home. I had my discharge orders, but then I had to go
home and stop at Kilmer and be-
HT: So you were still active duty at this point.
VE: Yes.
HT: You wore a uniform and the whole thing.
VE: Yes.
HT: Okay. This Cecilia, do you recall her last name?
VE: No.
HT: But she was an American.
VE: She was an American, yes, and she had been married. We were comparing
weddings. When I was married, I wanted to wear my pink skirt and my Eisenhower
jacket, but the chief nurse said no, I had to wear a Class A uniform, which is
that OD-colored thing. Cecilia was telling me about her wedding dress. You know,
a lot of girls did that in those days. They'd get parachute silk and have
someone make a wedding dress.
HT: You didn't want that.
VE: I didn't even think about it. I wanted to get married. I really didn't care
about the dress.
HT: Do you recall the name of the ship that you came back on?
VE: The Brazil.
HT: Was that an American ship?
VE: That was an American. It's called the Brazil. I don't know, it might not
have been. But I know we bumped into somebody else who came back on that ship,
not at the same time.
HT: Was this a troop ship or was it a-
VE: Well, it was a ship carrying war brides.
HT: A converted liner?
VE: It might have been.
HT: So there were no men aboard, very few men.
VE: Very few men. I don't remember. All I remember is the vision of this baby
peeing into the ocean, and working in the nursery-it was just a matter of
changing babies and stuff like that-simply to pass time, to get home in a hurry.
HT: Were you in a stateroom or a cabin? Because I think you said on the way over
you were on another troop ship, you were just hammocks.
VE: No, I was in a stateroom because I was alone. So it must have been a luxury
liner or something like that. It must have been. Ought to look that up sometime.
HT: At this time you were still a second lieutenant, or had you gotten-
VE: No, I never got promoted.
HT: Promotions were very rare of the women, even in the nursing corps. It just
didn't happen.
VE: No. I know both my bridesmaids were friends, and they called each other
Mabel, so we referred to them as the German Mabel and American Mabel. One stood
up for me for the German wedding, and the other one for the American. But Mabel,
American Mabel stayed in the service and ended up a lieutenant colonel. But, you
know, there were very few generals. And, of course, I-it was a matter of time.
HT: What impact do you think having been in the military had on your life,
immediately after you got out, and in the long-term?
VE: Well, the obvious impact was that's where I got my husband. Well, I think it
changed me from a little innocent girl who might have stayed in Brooklyn all my
life, and married some nice guy and had children and gone to the Catholic church
and so forth and so on-it made me get out and see the world, and married
somebody which-I mean that happened to so many people-married somebody from a
completely different background.
I mean, he was Protestant; I was Catholic. He had-it was just different people.
His father was a businessman. Mine was more of an intellectual. The mothers were
the same, but mothers were all the same in those days. And I think it made me
see the world. I compare myself to two of my sisters, who never left the home
area, and they lived in New York. I mean, New York people are the most
provincial people in the world. They can't see beyond New York. So I think it
has made me-I married somebody who liked to travel, and I think it made me
willing to go anyplace. We did a lot of moving around.
HT: Where was Mr. Eustice from originally?
VE: Outside of Chicago. Well, he was born in Hackensack, as was my oldest son.
His father was one of those, started out as an office boy and ended up vice
president and treasurer of the company. So they moved to the Chicago area when
Russell was a young man, and he was raised there. He went to Colgate, and he
always tells the story about being interviewed for jobs after graduating, and he
was offered a job and had a job with IBM, when the man from Vicks Vapo Rub came
along and said he could be part of the Vicks School of Applied Merchandising,
which meant they taught you how to be a salesman.
And he said, "You will travel for a whole year. You won't be home in the
same town for more than three days, for a whole year; travel all over the
country." And that was for him. That's how he got the job he ended up.
That's how he became a salesman, because of this love of travel.
HT: When you came back to the States, where did you live originally?
VE: Oh, we lived in Hackensack. His grandmother had had a house, and she was on
in years, and we were going to live upstairs in her house. She had made it into
a two-story house. We were going to rent the upstairs apartment. She came home,
and just two days after I had come home from being discharged, she died. We were
left the house, so we lived in Hackensack and we lived in Haworth and then to
South Bend, and then to Chicago, and then to New Jersey, and then Washington.
HT: How soon after you got back to the States were you discharged, do you
recall?
VE: Oh, just a matter of a few days.
HT: Just a few days.
VE: Yes. It was just a matter of you got to Kilmer, again, and it was a matter
of being processed, which meant the physical, and signing papers of some sort. I
don't know what else.
HT: After you were discharged, did you go back to private nursing?
VE: No. I didn't work at all. "My wife doesn't work." And, you know,
with all that they say about women being liberated as much as we were in those
days-you know, women went out to work outside of the homes-when the war was
over, we were happy to go back home. Rather than what our children and
grandchildren do, we were very happy to go home and raise families and stay home
and not work. I didn't go back to work till my youngest son was eleven.
HT: So you never thought of making the military a career, I assume.
VE: No. Well, I couldn't anyway; even in nursing I couldn't have.
HT: Right. Because if a woman got married while she was in the military, she had
to leave.
VE: She had to, yes.
HT: There were no options.
VE: No.
HT: You said that you returned to work when your youngest son was eleven. What
type of work did you go back into?
VE: Went to work in a small hospital outside-we'd been living in
Maryland-outside of Washington. A small hospital, because at that point my
husband wanted to start his own sales business, sales agency. You know, I hadn't
worked in how many years, and as far as he was concerned, "Well, you're a
nurse. Why don't you go back to work?" And I thought, why not. It was hard,
because there were no refresher courses in those days. So I went back to work in
a small hospital that was in the process of building a new hospital. I went to
every seminar and workshop and training session, anything that anybody offered,
where, you know, the other nurses would say, "Well, I'm not going on my day
off. Well, if they pay me, I'll go." I just ate it all up.
HT: So, how long had you been away from nursing?
VE: I had been out, well, let's see. From '46 to '60, I guess; a long time.
HT: And things had changed quite a bit, I would imagine.
VE: Things had changed quite a bit, and suddenly everything was different. But
as I said, I went to anything I could get my hands on, and there was a lot
available. I never gave a medicine without looking it up or calling a
pharmacist, because I had to retrain myself. And I worked in this small
emergency room, and then we moved into the new big hospital, and I was head
nurse of the new big emergency room.
HT: So, you were in charge of-
VE: Yes, I was in charge.
HT: That's quite a bit of responsibility.
VE: Yes.
HT: How do you think nursing had changed from the time, from '46 to the early
sixties? Had it changed as much as it changed in the last forty years?
VE: It had changed a lot, because, well, medicines were new. There were a lot of
new medicines. But there was a lot of information available, so that was easier.
And single-use supplies-what's the word? I don't know. But we didn't have a
central supply room cooking up fluids anymore. We had-everything was disposable,
and that was different, with new procedures all the time. But with the new
procedures, you know, they were always-there was always somebody from the drug
company to do a class and stuff like that. But everything was new.
I remember when I was in nursing school, when we had heart patients we were told
that a patient with heart disease didn't do anything for himself, except maybe
[unclear] to die. We fed them; we kept them in bed; we fed them. If we moved
them, two people would move them so they wouldn't have to exert themselves. Of
course, that's changed. So everything was different.
When we had those patients in the OB hospital, the obstetrical patients, they
dangled on the side of the bed after five days. You know, you had your baby.
Five days later you'd dangle your feet over the side of the bed. The sixth day
you sat in the chair, and the seventh day you could walk. A lot of them ended up
with blood clots. And then there we were in the new hospital and they were going
home after three days. It was different. Everything was different.
HT: If you had to do it over again, would you join the military again?
VE: Oh, in those days, yes. Yes, because it was a chance for the newest
everything. Sure.
HT: Was the military sort of cutting edge of a lot of techniques and things in
those days?
VE: I think so. Sure.
HT: I think they had to be, because there were so many injured men coming back.
You talked about the bone grafts and that sort of thing. They had to be on top
of it. All they'd need [unclear].
VE: Yes, they tried new things. Sure.
HT: All of these various wounds and things.
VE: Triage was a new thing, you know. But, oh sure, I mean if there had been no
war, I would have gotten my nursing, my R.N., and I would have got a job in a
hospital, and probably not gone far from home.
HT: Right. And when you graduated from nurse school you were an R.N.
VE: No. You were a graduate nurse until after your state boards. You took your
state boards to get the R.N. Then you were an R.N.
HT: Just a couple more questions about World War II. Do you recall what the mood
of the country was like during World War II?
VE: Pride more than anything, I would think. You know, there were the men in
uniform all over the place. Before we went to war, I used to hear Eddie Cantor
on the radio every Sunday night, and he always ended with this song, "Let
Them Keep it Over There," that if they feel like a war on some foreign
shore, let them keep it over there. And that was the mood of the country then.
But then, of course, Pearl Harbor came, and it changed. There wasn't any
question about whether or not we should go. You know, we were at war. I think we
were proud of people who went, and men wanted to go. You know, the mood was,
"Sure, I'm going." And, of course, there was the rationing. I don't
remember much about that except-my mother didn't approve of smoking, but I
learned to smoke in nursing school. And my mother used to get cigarettes for me
with-you had to have, I think she had to have points or something, and she would
get them for me.
You know, there was that. You couldn't get things. I remember housing. I
remember when I came out of the service and we lived in that house in
Hackensack, I remember some of the people in that town saying to me, "You
know, an awful lot of the war, that house was empty." And that was,
"Somebody could have used that house." But there were men and women in
uniform all over the place. Of course, WACs, that was new, I guess. They didn't
have anything like that in the First War.
HT: The WAVES would be the navy women.
VE: Yes.
HT: Matter of fact, there were women in all branches of service.
VE: Yes.
HT: Who did you admire and respect a great deal during that time, heroes or
heroines? It could be somebody famous, or not so famous.
VE: I don't know if anybody-different people at different times. I had a friend
in nursing school, not a close friend. She was a senior when I was a probie,
which is what they called freshmen.
HT: How do you spell that?
VE: What? Probie?
HT: Yes.
VE: [Spells] Probie. Probationer.
HT: Oh, okay.
VE: Probie. Yes, you were a probie for six months, and then you got capped. But
she had been engaged to one of the doctors, and he developed a form of cancer,
and she took care of him. I remember her coming off duty and then going to take
care of him, and seeing her-I could see this pale face, and then just being with
him until he finally died. She was kind of a hero. Of course, Ike was a hero.
HT: Did you ever get a chance to meet anyone famous like Eisenhower or President
Truman?
VE: No.
HT: How did you feel about President Roosevelt?
VE: That's interesting. I voted for the first time when he was running for the
fourth time, and that's when I became a Republican, because I didn't think
anybody should have a fourth term. And I was right. He was too sick. But no, I
just didn't think anybody should have a fourth term, so-although I came from a
Democratic family. I remember when he died. I remember some-you know, because he
was admired. We never knew he had any handicap. Might have known it, but never
really knew it.
HT: It just wasn't publicized.
VE: No, it wasn't. And I mean, it wasn't anything that anybody talked about.
Nobody really knew. I remember when he died, I remember they played-and I can't
remember where I was working at the time-they played funeral music on the radio.
We didn't have TV, of course, the whole time. And I remember this old nurse
just, she wanted to dig up his bones and have him tried for treason; didn't like
him, and complaining about the music. I'd be playing other music. But, of
course, on the whole, everybody thought he was a great hero.
HT: What were your thoughts about Mrs. Eleanor Roosevelt?
VE: Well, she was certainly different. You know, the first woman who was out
there doing things. I don't know. I guess I admired her, but I didn't give it
that much thought.
HT: She sort of was very visible, as you said, whereas the other First Ladies
had not been quite as visible.
VE: No. And, of course, you know, Bess Truman came after her, and she was
certainly-and it wasn't until later, you know, after we were married and had
children, and she was-when she was one of our ambassadors to the U.N., she was
more visible after Franklin died, even. I guess I feel more about her then,
because before that she was just the wife of the president, and I was too young
to care about that.
HT: Would you consider yourself to be an independent person, and if so, do you
think the military helped make you that way?
VE: Oh, yes, I do. I think military and I think marrying the person I did. I
think he expected me to be independent and I just-
HT: Because he was traveling quite a bit.
VE: He was traveling, yes. He was traveling, and he would just assume that I
would do certain things. Well, I guess I was-I'm thinking of how I went into
nursing school. I wanted to be a nurse, and yet I wasn't sure. You know, if
something better had come along, I would have picked a better thing, but there
weren't that many things. I remember Sister Ildephonse calling me one day
because I hadn't made up my mind. I could still hear her saying, "Miss
Dabrowski, are you coming to nursing school or not?"
And I was too scared of nuns to say, "I'm not sure." I said,
"Yes, sister," and I became a nurse. So it was partly independent and
partly too scared not to be independent.
HT: Do you consider yourself to be a pioneer or a trailblazer or a trendsetter
when you were in the service?
VE: Only in my family, and going overseas. Only in my family, I mean, with women
being in all over the place. I don't know how many members of my class went in
the army and navy. A lot of them did. There were girls who didn't get married
the day after they got out, but a lot of them did. So in that sense I wasn't,
but in my own family, going overseas and marrying somebody without asking
anybody or telling anybody-
HT: Somebody you'd known for only eighteen days, which was quite unusual.
VE: Yes, except that my friend Mary Forsmark said that when you find yourself at
a point like that and you know that it's right to do it, that's God telling you
you should do it. And I never had, as yet, any doubts that that was thing to do,
and never had-
HT: Here you are, like fifty-six years later-
VE: Fifty-six years later and-
HT: The right decision, apparently.
VE: Yes, absolutely.
HT: Would you consider yourself to be a feminist?
VE: Yes and no, in the sense that I'm glad that somebody pushed for rights for
women. But here all these years later, the big thing is, I mean, they want
[unclear]. I mean, it's sort of-I don't care for. And the right they have is the
right to be sexually as active as they want to be, and have abortions. There are
still women who don't have the right to go out and leave home and not have to
work to help support the family. I mean, in one sense, women have a lot of
rights. In another sense, I think they've lost a lot. You know, we were-I don't
think we were ever treated like-I don't know what word to use-chattel.
[Begin Tape 2, Side A]
VE: No, I think women have lost a lot. I think they needed certain things. They
needed the right to go to work, and to compete with men in jobs. My husband
always used to say that in a family, you had to decide, if there were two people
working, which job was going to be the job. It could be the man's or the
woman's, but if she were being transferred, then he had to go along, or
whatever.
HT: I think a lot of families are finding that very difficult today, because
it's two careers, and one person gets a promotion, that makes it so difficult
for the other person.
VE: Yes. But you have to decide which-who's going to be first? I think children
have lost a lot, because the women aren't there. And I think mothers make better
mothers than fathers do. I don't care what anybody says; they really do. So, I
don't know. They needed to have somebody speak up and liberate them and free
them, but I think they've lost a lot.
HT: Have any of your children been in the military?
VE: Our youngest son was in for three years, three and a half years.
HT: In which branch of the service?
VE: He was in the Army.
HT: Do you think that you and your husband had both been in the Army, that
influenced him to join?
VE: No, he was-you know, our kids were all in that sixties generation when the
hippies were all over the place. They were-but he didn't know what to do with
his life. He's still not-he's fifty years old. He's still not sure what he wants
to do when he grows up.
HT: You have three sons.
VE: We have three sons, yes.
HT: No daughters.
VE: No. Three daughters-in-law. But no, he just went in at a time when he didn't
know what to do. He says, "I went in, and all of a sudden I was raising my
right hand." And he said, "So suddenly, there I was." But I'm
sorry he didn't stay in, because he would have been a good-it would have been a
good career for him.
HT: Well, how do you feel about women in combat? You know, recently, well, ten
years ago, women flew combat missions in the Gulf War.
VE: Yes. Well, you know, women-yes, I think they can do as much as men can in
certain areas. I don't think they belong on submarines, and I think they're fine
in combat until the plane gets shot down and the woman is captured.
HT: Which has happened.
VE: Which has happened. No, I think-yes, I think the way, you know, these days,
they have to be in combat like men. But I think they're still women, and they
have to be protected from certain areas, and the men have to be protected from
them in certain areas. But other than that, you know, I don't know. The way wars
are fought these days, there's not a lot of slogging around in the mud. Women
aren't built like men. They get pregnant. Then what do you do with them?
HT: When that happened in your day, they were automatically discharged.
VE: Automatically.
HT: Right. Which I don't think happens these days.
VE: No.
HT: Things have changed a good deal, I'm sure, in the last few years. Mrs.
Eustice, you've covered a lot of variety of topics this afternoon. Is there
anything that we haven't covered that you would like to add to the interview?
VE: I don't think so.
HT: Well, thank you so much for your time and your great stories. This has been
wonderful, listening to you.
VE: I didn't think I'd talk this long.
HT: Thank you so much.
VE: I told my husband, "Fifteen minutes and he'll be out of here."
[End of interview]
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